Yes it is indeed obvious. Well we can change that, can’t we?

We don’t have to follow the trend.

We can change our scripts and lead the life we want.

Just a reminder for myself, i guess i would want to treat my wife (or wives, just kidding…lol!) the very best way possible. Give her presents, surprise dinner, dating, birthday cards, a kiss on her cheek before she sleeps, all that romantic stuff every women want, and all that people usually do when they are dating.

Totally agree with you that we need to put effort and ultimately leave it to Allah. Like i mentioned in my previous post in my blogspot, love is a verb not a noun. So if you love someone, you make things happen, you work things out, you love(verb) her/him, you express your deep thoughts and feelings, etc…

Well may i practise what i preach.

Thank you for your brilliant comment boo… =)

When there’s no strings attached, there’s always room for moral hazards. Where responsibility between couples are not upheld to the highest point of authority.

Anyways, most of the time it’s lust and people like to deny it. We really should go and learn about the human mind plus the neuron system in our body, and how infatuation and body chemicals play with our logical train of thoughts. It’s really interesting.

When i got to know this fact, i am more self aware and i’m cautious of ‘falling in love’ with someone. Because i know that the chemicals in my body are playing tricks on me.

Thank you Fadzuli for you sharing your thoughts. Appreciate it!

haha!!… well, it’s obvious isn’t it? gifts and what nots before marriage. what happens after marriage? poof goes the surprises.

i guess when you and your spouse have the same goal in mind, the chemistry’s there already.

then again, not all marriages can work. even the prophets divorce their wives.

more of putting in the effort and leaving it to Him. cos whatever happens in the end, He knows what’s best for us.